But if we can have lunch at two,
if we can cut it at 2:20.
We can crack this out so fast.
there's ten questions each.
- Cool. - Yeah, I’m cool.
what's the first thing you'd tell me
your memory, I'd be like, Listen, dude,
But maybe it's because I'm a good anchor
and I'm a good hearted person.
I would say something like that.
remind you that you're like
luminance and creativity and
I think in our relationship,
not holding the kite, but
watching the kite from the ground.
like maybe your other friends.
So I would say that's our current dynamic
but maybe I want to be up there
I'd say something like that.
This is being recorded, um.
We're playing {The And}, not Honest X.
Wait until the cards start changing.
You're a very solid person.
Um, and yeah, I can be a little bit,
flying around a little bit airy fairy
I think with everybody, you
to the core of what's really important
and the kind of subtext of emotion.
Yeah, you have a very good skill set of doing that.
And I also just love being around you
because you have a great laugh.
You make me laugh, brother.
You have a good laugh too.
yeah, we're just a good team.
Feels good to be with you.
why do you think I'm in your life?
Like, why do you think our souls crossed
it's just we're in each other's lives
because it's meant to be.
easy communication with each other.
if it's a little bit like,
- I wasn’t home-schooled alone. - But I think about him a lot.
I'm like, What does he look like?
‘cause you look a lot like your dad.
You know what? I think about him a lot.
when is the universe going to align such
that I have the opportunity to meet him?
an important influence in my life.
A lot of who I am today is because
But he and I have had a little bit
or our relationship has been challenged
maybe you've kind of come in
because I need that brother.
because I know you're private
I don't know what it is, but I know
I think I know where it exists.
It's the family constellation.
Father, son, mother, brother.
Like, there's something in there.
and I don't even want to.
I know that is your space,
and I respect your space, man.
There's pain, and whatever it is,
And I think we had a conversation briefly
two weeks ago at the fire
that's maybe where we are in our life,
because I might need your help
I'm going to react when my dad goes.
Fuck you, Barbara Walters.
Yeah, when have you see me
and what did you learn from it?
So there are a few times.
I, it's not a specific moment,
but there have been multiple moments
And you don’t need to overthink that.
which we also discussed by the fire
That's the first thought that I went to.
Was that whole week, right?
Which is interesting because,
because actually that when I think about
why am I in your life is like
or we're in each other's life, you definitely
You allowed me to continue
to be insecure and flail all around,
but you had this exuberance of love
so that even though I was flailing,
And that process, humanity.
in what ways would life be different?
they would be pretty different.
I wouldn't have a really good example of,
intuitively felt in believe,
I wouldn't be reinforced,
the surfing of the universe
and the life and the yes to things
and the creativity and the passion.
that life could be lived,
I wouldn't really have that reference.
I think if I didn't have that,
I would be more constrained, less open,
You know? So I think you open up
offering me a blossoming.
And I really appreciate that, man.
It's like a breath of fresh air.
Otherwise I get stuck in here.
Doing {The And} with my mother
because we're so private.
It was the first time we,
and I was like, the only way it's
is to be truly open and honest.
are you most grateful for?
everything that you embody
Oh, it’s good ‘cause you save
a lot on shampoo when your traveling.
We're not fighting over it
you're a megaphone of emotion
in understanding themselves.
- What you've created - It’s pretty cool.
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